Three Levels of Conversation
Do you engage in conversation at level oneh tactical, efficient and static? Or do you move up to level three where relationships can co-create formerly impossible solutions. Follow 3 steps to help every group move up the quality of conversation ladder
How to run it
- 5 % of you have already made up your mind if you are going to listen to me!
- These parts are much faster than the rest of our brain and decide how we respond to smiles, frowns and more before you even know anything about me!
- Ask participants to join their assigned People Science team focus of teams should be similarities for ease
- Ask participants to discuss the weather and the tactical reasons of why they are together for the■ JDWKHULQJ In this phase, people tell and ask
- This is generally an area of low or unknown■ trust and most people start as resistors or skeptics
- Ask participants to take the conversation to level two
- People advocate and inquire versus tell and ask
- They try to build consensus and compromise and negotiate
- Most people here have conditional trust and are still in the wait and see mentality
- Does anyone have any reservations 418 with this?
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5 % of you have already made up your mind if you are going to listen to me!
These parts are much faster than the rest of our brain and decide how we respond to smiles, frowns and more before you even know anything about me!
Ask participants to join their assigned People Science team focus of teams should be similarities for ease
Ask participants to discuss the weather and the tactical reasons of why they are together for the■ JDWKHULQJ In this phase, people tell and ask
This is generally an area of low or unknown■ trust and most people start as resistors or skeptics
Ask participants to take the conversation to level two
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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Three Levels of Conversation. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: 5 % of you have already made up your mind if you are going to listen to me!; These parts are much faster than the rest of our brain and decide how we respond to smiles, frowns and more before you even know anything about me!; Ask participants to join their assigned People Science team focus of teams should be similarities for ease; Ask participants to discuss the weather and the tactical reasons of why they are together for the■ JDWKHULQJ In this phase, people tell and ask. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.
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