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Relationship Mapping

Conversation Starter Game For Breaking The Ice - Card Talk

Conversation Starter Game For Breaking The Ice - Card Talk is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25), PairsGROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Lay a deck of playing cards face-up in front of your group.
  2. Invite each person to select one card from the deck based on how brave they are feeling.
  3. If they are feeling brave, they may choose a high-value card, or if they would prefer to play it safe, they may choose a low-value card.
  4. Once every person has taken a card, invite them to find a partner (see Getting into Pairs for ideas.)
  5. Instruct each person to share as many things about themselves according to the value of their card, ie a person with a Two will share two things while their partner holding a Jack will share ten things.
  6. Invite each person to interact with as many different partners as they can within the allotted time frame, eg 10 minutes.
  7. Card Talk Conversation starter game that builds meaningful connections.
  8. Card Talk offers a refreshing twist on the traditional get-to-know-you game format, particularly brilliant with diverse groups.
  9. This fun icebreaker activity creates multiple opportunities for meaningful dialogue, allowing participants to control what they share whilst breaking down social barriers gradually.
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Prompts to use +

Invite each person to select one card from the deck based on how brave they are feeling.

If they are feeling brave, they may choose a high-value card, or if they would prefer to play it safe, they may choose a low-value card.

Once every person has taken a card, invite them to find a partner (see Getting into Pairs for ideas.)

Instruct each person to share as many things about themselves according to the value of their card, ie a person with a Two will share two things while their partner holding a Jack will share ten things.

Invite each person to interact with as many different partners as they can within the allotted time frame, eg 10 minutes.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Conversation Starter Game For Breaking The Ice - Card Talk. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Invite each person to select one card from the deck based on how brave they are feeling.; If they are feeling brave, they may choose a high-value card, or if they would prefer to play it safe, they may choose a low-value card.; Once every person has taken a card, invite them to find a partner (see Getting into Pairs for ideas.); Instruct each person to share as many things about themselves according to the value of their card, ie a person with a Two will share two things while their partner holding a Jack will share ten things.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

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