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Relationship Mapping

Team Icebreaker Activity For Building Bonds - Commonalities

Team Icebreaker Activity For Building Bonds - Commonalities is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25), Small group (4-8)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Divide your group into teams of four to six people.
  2. Challenge each group to list as many ‘attributes’ every person in the group has in common.
  3. Encourage groups to seek unique attributes, because if another group has a similar attribute on their list, both groups must cross it off their list.
  4. After five to eight minutes, invite each group to read their full list of commonalities to everyone.
  5. The group with the most attributes (remaining) on their list after all groups have shared, wins.
  6. Commonalities Team icebreaker activity to discover surprising group connections.
  7. Commonalities transforms a simple sharing exercise into an intriguing get-to-know-you experience where teams compete to find the most unique shared attributes.
  8. Perfect for breaking down barriers, this team icebreaker activity generates laughter easily as participants uncover surprising similarities.
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Prompts to use +

Challenge each group to list as many ‘attributes’ every person in the group has in common.

Encourage groups to seek unique attributes, because if another group has a similar attribute on their list, both groups must cross it off their list.

After five to eight minutes, invite each group to read their full list of commonalities to everyone.

The group with the most attributes (remaining) on their list after all groups have shared, wins.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Team Icebreaker Activity For Building Bonds - Commonalities. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Challenge each group to list as many ‘attributes’ every person in the group has in common.; Encourage groups to seek unique attributes, because if another group has a similar attribute on their list, both groups must cross it off their list.; After five to eight minutes, invite each group to read their full list of commonalities to everyone.; The group with the most attributes (remaining) on their list after all groups have shared, wins.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

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