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Team Reflection · Reflection and Learning

The Three Word Interview

The Three Word Interview is a team reflection exercise for reflection and learning: it helps participants reflect on experience and turn observations into learning.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Pairs, Small group (4-8)GROUP SIZE
BalancedENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
Low cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Learning Transfer This reflection and learning exercise strengthens Learning Transfer, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Pair off the players according to people science team results
  2. Have each pair find out as much of the following information about each other as they possibly can in 2-3
  3. Then have each partner choose 3 words to describe their assigned partner, but 3 words only
  4. Process Pair off the players according to people science team results.
  5. minutes Name, hobbies, family, state, school/job, skills, favourite food, countries visited, favorite type of music,■ HWF Then have each partner choose 3 words to describe their assigned partner, but 3 words only.
  6. Cool Possibilities/Options Rather than having the pairs interview each other, have someone else interview the interviewer.
  7. example, for players A, B , C, D, have A interview B, B interview C, C interview D, and D interview A.
  8. People Science Data Capture Record or have the players record the descriptions and hand them to your knowledge weaver for incorporation into the database.
  9. 30 minutes, distilling information, energizer, getting to know you, icebreaker, network analysis, networking, small groups 386
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Prompts to use +

Pair off the players according to people science team results

Have each pair find out as much of the following information about each other as they possibly can in 2-3

Then have each partner choose 3 words to describe their assigned partner, but 3 words only

Process Pair off the players according to people science team results.

minutes Name, hobbies, family, state, school/job, skills, favourite food, countries visited, favorite type of music,■ HWF Then have each partner choose 3 words to describe their assigned partner, but 3 words only.

Cool Possibilities/Options Rather than having the pairs interview each other, have someone else interview the interviewer.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: The Three Word Interview. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Pair off the players according to people science team results; Have each pair find out as much of the following information about each other as they possibly can in 2-3; Then have each partner choose 3 words to describe their assigned partner, but 3 words only; Process Pair off the players according to people science team results.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

Origin unverified

  • Where we observed it: The strongest current observations come from Relationship Makers Handbook; aggregators are listed as additional observations, not origin proof. (1 source observed, including Relationship Makers Handbook.)
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