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# Speed Dating

Participants sit in two facing lines and rotate through brief, timed one-on-one conversations using a shared prompt. Each person speaks with several peers to learn about their backgrounds or viewpoints.

**Time:** 15 minutes. 15 minutes matches the standard duration reported in the SessionLab source entry.
**People:** 4 to 24. Two facing rows of chairs. One row remains seated while the other shifts one seat down each round.

## Choose this exercise

**Purpose:** Exchange background information or perspectives across multiple peers in rapid structured pair rounds.
**Use it when:** Use at the start of a cohort, training session, or cross-functional workshop when participants need to meet several peers quickly without unstructured mingling.
**Skip it when:** Skip when the group is smaller than four people, when the room is too loud for simultaneous conversations, or when the task requires in-depth problem solving rather than quick introductions.

## Materials and tools

- Chairs (one per participant)
- Interval timer or chime
- Visual display or whiteboard with 1 to 2 prompt questions

## Before participants arrive

1. Arrange chairs in two parallel rows facing each other, roughly 1 meter apart.
2. If using tables, place long tables between the rows.
3. Ensure clear walking space around the ends of the lines for rotations.
4. Write the conversation prompt on a visible board.

## Say this to open

We are going to do a rapid introduction exercise called Speed Dating. You will sit across from a partner and have two minutes to exchange answers to the prompt on the screen. When the chime sounds, the stationary side stays put, and the moving side shifts one chair to the right. You will meet four different people.

## How to run it

### 1. Explain format and display prompt (2 minutes)

Direct participants to find any open chair. Designate one row as the stationary side and the other row as the rotating side. Present the prompt question: 'Share your name, your primary role or focus right now, and one skill you bring to this group.' For language practice or roleplay, state whether participants use their real identity or an assigned persona.

### 2. Run conversation rounds 1 and 2 (5 minutes)

Start the timer for Round 1 (2 minutes). Partners split the time to answer the prompt. At the 2-minute chime, call 'Rotate.' The rotating row stands and shifts one seat to the right; the person at the far end walks around to the start of the row. Start Round 2 immediately for 2 minutes.

### 3. Run conversation rounds 3 and 4 (5 minutes)

Sound the chime and have the rotating row shift one position. Start Round 3 for 2 minutes. At the chime, rotate once more and start Round 4 for 2 minutes. Call time at the end of Round 4.

### 4. Conduct brief room debrief (3 minutes)

Ask participants to pause in place. Invite two or three volunteers to share an interesting skill or perspective they heard from a partner, without sharing confidential details.


## Debrief questions

- What is one common theme or surprising skill you heard across your conversations?
- How did the short time limit affect what you chose to share?

**Finished output:** Every participant completes brief introductory conversations with four peers.

## Remote

Use breakout rooms set for pairs. The host sets automatic 2-minute timers and recreates or randomizes breakout pairings after each round for 4 rounds total. Post the prompt in the global broadcast chat before each round.

## Hybrid

Pair in-person participants with in-person partners along physical rows. Pair remote participants together in digital breakout rooms. Avoid cross-modality pairing because room audio bleed makes simultaneous one-on-one laptop calls in a shared room ineffective.

## Access and participation choices

- Participants may pass on personal details and speak strictly to professional roles or an assigned persona.
- Participants with mobility limits can sit in the stationary row so they do not have to move between rounds.
- Provide written prompt cards on tables for participants who prefer reading over verbal instructions.

## If the session gets stuck

**Odd number of participants leaves one person without a partner.**

Designate the chair at the end of the stationary line as a trio station, where three people split the two-minute window, or invite the spare person to assist the facilitator with timing.

**One person dominates the two minutes, leaving the partner no speaking time.**

Sound a soft mid-point chime at the 1-minute mark to signal partners to switch speaking turns.


## Terms used here

- Stationary side: The line of chairs where participants stay seated throughout all rounds.
- Rotating side: The line of chairs where participants stand and shift one seat over between rounds.

## Sources and adaptation

Observed in ESL Active and SessionLab records. SessionLab notes that speed dating as a social format is commonly attributed to Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish HaTorah, while its adaptation as a training and classroom method is widely shared across facilitator communities.

Retained the defining mechanic of facing lines, timed rapid rounds, and rotating chairs from ESL Active and SessionLab. UWT added the 4-round time breakdown (2 minutes per round plus rotations), midpoint time-management cue, hybrid configuration, and specific prompt script.

[ESL Active](https://eslactive.com/activities/speed-dating/)

[ESL Active](https://eslactive.com/activities/speed-dating/#)

[SessionLab](https://www.sessionlab.com/methods/speed-dating)

Current run sheet: https://unitedwetransform.com/exercises/speed-dating/