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Relationship Mapping

Quiz, Quiz, Trade - SEL 3 Signature Practices Playbook

Quiz, Quiz, Trade - SEL 3 Signature Practices Playbook is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25), PairsGROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Pass out a card to each participant. On your signal, participants will move around the room to find a partner. Pairs will then:
  2. Ask their partner the question on their card.
  3. Respond to the question on their partner’s card.
  4. Raise their hand to indicate they need a new partner.
  5. Debrief, explaining how the activity is designed not just to practice facts or learn answers, but to gain experience listening and sharing with each other. Ask participants questions like:
  6. How many partners were you able to speak with, and how does that compare to a typical day?
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Prompts to use +

Pass out a card to each participant. On your signal, participants will move around the room to find a partner. Pairs will then:

Ask their partner the question on their card.

Debrief, explaining how the activity is designed not just to practice facts or learn answers, but to gain experience listening and sharing with each other. Ask participants questions like:

How many partners were you able to speak with, and how does that compare to a typical day?

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Quiz, Quiz, Trade - SEL 3 Signature Practices Playbook. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Pass out a card to each participant. On your signal, participants will move around the room to find a partner. Pairs will then:; Ask their partner the question on their card.; Debrief, explaining how the activity is designed not just to practice facts or learn answers, but to gain experience listening and sharing with each other. Ask participants questions like:; How many partners were you able to speak with, and how does that compare to a typical day?. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

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