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Relationship Mapping

LIGHT, MEDIUM, OR HEAVY

LIGHT, MEDIUM, OR HEAVY is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
Medium cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Stimulus cards. These cards contain words or phrases that the participants talk about. Create your own packet of about 20 cards to suit your participants and your topic.
  2. The stimulus cards are shuffled and placed face down in the middle of the table.
  3. If a player does not want to talk about a particular stimulus word, he or she can pass, getting no points for the round. The next participant may then use the skipped card, or pick a new card.
  4. The activity continues with the next player picking up a new stimulus card. All players keep track of their total scores.
  5. Depending on the available time, the activity may end after the third, fourth, or fifth round. Make sure that everyone has an equal number of turns.
  6. Create your own packet of about 20 cards to suit your participants and your topic.
  7. Note that some words are related to the topic and some are irrelevant; some are bland and some are potentially embarrassing.
  8. If you have more participants, divide them into roughly equal-sized groups of 3 to 7 and have th
  9. If you have more participants, divide them into roughly equal-sized groups of 3 to 7 and have the groups play in a parallel fashion.
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Prompts to use +

Stimulus cards. These cards contain words or phrases that the participants talk about. Create your own packet of about 20 cards to suit your participants and your topic.

If a player does not want to talk about a particular stimulus word, he or she can pass, getting no points for the round. The next participant may then use the skipped card, or pick a new card.

Depending on the available time, the activity may end after the third, fourth, or fifth round. Make sure that everyone has an equal number of turns.

Create your own packet of about 20 cards to suit your participants and your topic.

Note that some words are related to the topic and some are irrelevant; some are bland and some are potentially embarrassing.

If you have more participants, divide them into roughly equal-sized groups of 3 to 7 and have th

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: LIGHT, MEDIUM, OR HEAVY. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Stimulus cards. These cards contain words or phrases that the participants talk about. Create your own packet of about 20 cards to suit your participants and your topic.; If a player does not want to talk about a particular stimulus word, he or she can pass, getting no points for the round. The next participant may then use the skipped card, or pick a new card.; Depending on the available time, the activity may end after the third, fourth, or fifth round. Make sure that everyone has an equal number of turns.; Create your own packet of about 20 cards to suit your participants and your topic.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

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  • No efficacy claims: appearing in this library is not a claim that the exercise is proven effective. Facilitator judgment and context decide whether it works for a given room.
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