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Relationship Mapping

Back Tracking

Participants circulate with a hidden question card fastened to their back, collecting direct answers from peers without hearing the prompt. They analyze their collected answers to deduce their assigned question before revealing it.

20 minutesTIME
10 to 24 peopleGROUP SIZE
In person, Remote, HybridSETTING
4 materialsMATERIALS
Planning pillar: Network Design UWT groups this relationship mapping activity under Network Design in its Gathering Effectiveness planning framework.

Choose this exercise

Purpose: Enable participants to converse with multiple colleagues in rapid pairs and practice inferential reasoning using peer responses.

Use it when: Use during kickoffs or team retreats where people benefit from rapid, low-pressure one-on-one exchanges across the whole group.

Skip it when: Skip when meeting space does not permit mingling, when group size is under 10, or when participants need focused task-oriented work rather than a social opener.

Group arrangement: Milling pairs (or one triad if the group count is odd), followed by individual deduction and whole-room reveal turns

Timing: UWT suggested duration to allow sufficient mingling time and several deduction reveals

Materials and tools

Before participants arrive

  1. Write or print one distinct prompt on an index card for each participant from the question list, plus 3 spare cards.
  2. Place blank paper, tape rolls, and pens on a central table.
  3. Ensure clear open floor space for participants to circulate freely.

Say this to open

You will each have an index card taped to your back without seeing what is written on it. Your job is to mingle in pairs, turn so your partner can read your card, and note down their direct answer to that prompt. For example, if your card asks for a favorite breakfast, your partner simply says 'pancakes' without saying the question. Never reveal or hint at the prompt on someone's back. Answer only what is asked. Later, you will review your notes and deduce your mystery question.

How to run it

  1. Attach cards and prep notepads 3 minutes

    Distribute paper and pens. Say the opening script. Pair people up briefly to tape a question card to each other's backs, ensuring the wearer never sees their card. Offer participants the choice to attach the card to an upper sleeve or the back of an upright clipboard if back placement is uncomfortable.

  2. Mingle and record answers 9 minutes

    Direct everyone to circulate in pairs. If numbers are odd, form one triad where all three read and answer in turn. In each pair, partner B reads partner A's prompt and gives a direct answer. Partner A writes it down. They switch roles, then both find new partners. Encourage everyone to gather 5 or 6 answers from different peers before time is called.

  3. Review notes and deduce questions 3 minutes

    Call time on mingling. Ask participants to return to their seats. Give everyone two minutes of quiet focus to review their collected answers and write down their best guess of what specific question was pinned to their back.

  4. Reveal and debrief 5 minutes

    Invite 2 or 3 volunteers to read aloud a few answers they received, state their deduction, and remove the card to verify the actual prompt. Conclude by asking one question from the debrief list to the whole room for 2 or 3 brief reflections.

Debrief questions

Finished output: Each participant holds a sheet of peer answers and an attempted deduction of their assigned question card.

Remote

Use a shared digital board (such as Miro or Mural) with numbered covered cards. Assign each participant a card number privately via direct message. Break out into pairs every 90 seconds for 6 rounds (9 minutes total). In each round, partner B reveals and reads partner A's numbered card, speaks the direct answer, and partner A records it. They switch roles immediately so partner A reads partner B's card and answers. Participants collect 5 or 6 answers, deduce their prompt, and reveal their card.

Hybrid

All participants use the digital card board on laptops or mobile devices. In-person participants pair either together or sit at designated laptop stations to pair with remote peers. In each pair, partner A shares their assigned card number. Partner B opens that digital card, reads the prompt privately, and speaks their direct answer aloud while partner A notes it down without viewing the card. Then they switch roles: partner B shares their card number, partner A reads and answers, and partner B records.

Access and participation choices

If the session gets stuck

A participant accidentally glimpses their own card during attachment.
Replace it immediately with an unused reserve question card from your facilitator stash.
A respondent answers with leading hints such as 'Because it is cold outside, I choose cocoa.'
Intervene gently and remind the room to give simple, direct answers without contextual hints.

Sample 24 Icebreaker Questions

1. What is your favorite hot beverage?2. What city would you love to visit next?3. What was your very first paying job?4. What is your go-to comfort food?5. What skill would you like to learn this year?6. What is your favorite season of the year?7. What book or movie have you revisited most often?8. What morning routine step do you never skip?9. What is a hobby you enjoy outside of work?10. What musical artist do you listen to most often?11. What animal do you find most interesting?12. What subject in school did you enjoy the most?13. What outdoor activity do you like best?14. What dessert can you rarely turn down?15. What board game or card game do you enjoy?16. What is your favorite type of weather?17. What household chore do you dislike the most?18. What language would you like to speak fluently?19. What sport or physical activity do you enjoy watching or doing?20. What is a snack you always keep stocked?21. What holiday tradition do you look forward to?22. What tool or gadget do you use every day?23. What podcast or radio show do you listen to?24. What is your favorite breakfast meal?
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# Back Tracking

Participants circulate with a hidden question card fastened to their back, collecting direct answers from peers without hearing the prompt. They analyze their collected answers to deduce their assigned question before revealing it.

**Time:** 20 minutes. UWT suggested duration to allow sufficient mingling time and several deduction reveals
**People:** 10 to 24. Milling pairs (or one triad if the group count is odd), followed by individual deduction and whole-room reveal turns

## Choose this exercise

**Purpose:** Enable participants to converse with multiple colleagues in rapid pairs and practice inferential reasoning using peer responses.
**Use it when:** Use during kickoffs or team retreats where people benefit from rapid, low-pressure one-on-one exchanges across the whole group.
**Skip it when:** Skip when meeting space does not permit mingling, when group size is under 10, or when participants need focused task-oriented work rather than a social opener.

## Materials and tools

- Pre-written question cards (one index card per participant plus spares, selected from the sample list)
- Roll of painter tape or masking tape (one or two rolls)
- Blank note paper (one sheet per participant)
- Pens or pencils (one per participant)

## Before participants arrive

1. Write or print one distinct prompt on an index card for each participant from the question list, plus 3 spare cards.
2. Place blank paper, tape rolls, and pens on a central table.
3. Ensure clear open floor space for participants to circulate freely.

## Say this to open

You will each have an index card taped to your back without seeing what is written on it. Your job is to mingle in pairs, turn so your partner can read your card, and note down their direct answer to that prompt. For example, if your card asks for a favorite breakfast, your partner simply says 'pancakes' without saying the question. Never reveal or hint at the prompt on someone's back. Answer only what is asked. Later, you will review your notes and deduce your mystery question.

## How to run it

### 1. Attach cards and prep notepads (3 minutes)

Distribute paper and pens. Say the opening script. Pair people up briefly to tape a question card to each other's backs, ensuring the wearer never sees their card. Offer participants the choice to attach the card to an upper sleeve or the back of an upright clipboard if back placement is uncomfortable.

### 2. Mingle and record answers (9 minutes)

Direct everyone to circulate in pairs. If numbers are odd, form one triad where all three read and answer in turn. In each pair, partner B reads partner A's prompt and gives a direct answer. Partner A writes it down. They switch roles, then both find new partners. Encourage everyone to gather 5 or 6 answers from different peers before time is called.

### 3. Review notes and deduce questions (3 minutes)

Call time on mingling. Ask participants to return to their seats. Give everyone two minutes of quiet focus to review their collected answers and write down their best guess of what specific question was pinned to their back.

### 4. Reveal and debrief (5 minutes)

Invite 2 or 3 volunteers to read aloud a few answers they received, state their deduction, and remove the card to verify the actual prompt. Conclude by asking one question from the debrief list to the whole room for 2 or 3 brief reflections.


## Debrief questions

- Which peer answers narrowed down your mystery question most quickly, and why?
- What made it easy or challenging to answer a partner's question without accidentally giving away the topic?

**Finished output:** Each participant holds a sheet of peer answers and an attempted deduction of their assigned question card.

## Remote

Use a shared digital board (such as Miro or Mural) with numbered covered cards. Assign each participant a card number privately via direct message. Break out into pairs every 90 seconds for 6 rounds (9 minutes total). In each round, partner B reveals and reads partner A's numbered card, speaks the direct answer, and partner A records it. They switch roles immediately so partner A reads partner B's card and answers. Participants collect 5 or 6 answers, deduce their prompt, and reveal their card.

## Hybrid

All participants use the digital card board on laptops or mobile devices. In-person participants pair either together or sit at designated laptop stations to pair with remote peers. In each pair, partner A shares their assigned card number. Partner B opens that digital card, reads the prompt privately, and speaks their direct answer aloud while partner A notes it down without viewing the card. Then they switch roles: partner B shares their card number, partner A reads and answers, and partner B records.

## Access and participation choices

- Participants may affix their card to an upper sleeve, a lanyard, or the outside of an upright clipboard to avoid clothing contact.
- Anyone who prefers seated interaction may remain at a stationary table while mobile participants cycle past them.
- Participants may choose not to share their guesses aloud during the final reveal.

## If the session gets stuck

**A participant accidentally glimpses their own card during attachment.**

Replace it immediately with an unused reserve question card from your facilitator stash.

**A respondent answers with leading hints such as 'Because it is cold outside, I choose cocoa.'**

Intervene gently and remind the room to give simple, direct answers without contextual hints.


## Participant material: Sample 24 Icebreaker Questions

1. What is your favorite hot beverage?
2. What city would you love to visit next?
3. What was your very first paying job?
4. What is your go-to comfort food?
5. What skill would you like to learn this year?
6. What is your favorite season of the year?
7. What book or movie have you revisited most often?
8. What morning routine step do you never skip?
9. What is a hobby you enjoy outside of work?
10. What musical artist do you listen to most often?
11. What animal do you find most interesting?
12. What subject in school did you enjoy the most?
13. What outdoor activity do you like best?
14. What dessert can you rarely turn down?
15. What board game or card game do you enjoy?
16. What is your favorite type of weather?
17. What household chore do you dislike the most?
18. What language would you like to speak fluently?
19. What sport or physical activity do you enjoy watching or doing?
20. What is a snack you always keep stocked?
21. What holiday tradition do you look forward to?
22. What tool or gadget do you use every day?
23. What podcast or radio show do you listen to?
24. What is your favorite breakfast meal?

## Sources and adaptation

Observed on Playmeo, where it is attributed to Mark Collard.

Retained the reverse-engineering icebreaker dynamic from Playmeo. Added odd-number handling via triads, aligned target answers to 5 or 6 across in-person, remote, and hybrid modalities to fit 9 minutes of exchange, and explicitly detailed symmetrical turn-taking for hybrid pairs.

[Playmeo](https://www.playmeo.com/activities/ice-breakers-get-to-know-you-games/back-tracking)

[Playmeo](https://www.playmeo.com/activities/ice-breakers-get-to-know-you-games/back-tracking/)

Current run sheet: https://unitedwetransform.com/exercises/interactive-icebreaker-game-to-build-connections-back-tracking/

Sources and adaptation

Observed on Playmeo, where it is attributed to Mark Collard.

Retained the reverse-engineering icebreaker dynamic from Playmeo. Added odd-number handling via triads, aligned target answers to 5 or 6 across in-person, remote, and hybrid modalities to fit 9 minutes of exchange, and explicitly detailed symmetrical turn-taking for hybrid pairs.

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