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Relationship Mapping

Handshake Icebreaker Activity for Groups - Crosstown Connections

Handshake Icebreaker Activity for Groups - Crosstown Connections is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25), PairsGROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Demonstrate a particular handshake with a volunteer, eg high-five.
  2. Invite everyone to find one partner, according to random criteria you nominate, to practice this greeting.
  3. Demonstrate a second handshake/greeting with a new volunteer, eg fist-bump.
  4. Again, invite everyone to find a new partner - according to the new nominated criteria - to practice this latest handshake.
  5. Introduce two or three more unique handshake/greetings, asking people to find a new partner each time.
  6. For fun and to reinforce established partnerships, randomly call the name of a particular greeting to challenge everyone to locate their partner as quickly as possible.
  7. Adopt one or more of the variations to squeeze extra value from this interaction.
  8. Crosstown Connections Handshake icebreaker activity to build rapport through movement.
  9. Crosstown Connections turns a simple handshake icebreaker activity into an energetic social experience that gets everyone moving and mixing.
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Demonstrate a particular handshake with a volunteer, eg high-five.

Invite everyone to find one partner, according to random criteria you nominate, to practice this greeting.

Demonstrate a second handshake/greeting with a new volunteer, eg fist-bump.

Again, invite everyone to find a new partner - according to the new nominated criteria - to practice this latest handshake.

Crosstown Connections Handshake icebreaker activity to build rapport through movement.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Handshake Icebreaker Activity for Groups - Crosstown Connections. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Demonstrate a particular handshake with a volunteer, eg high-five.; Invite everyone to find one partner, according to random criteria you nominate, to practice this greeting.; Demonstrate a second handshake/greeting with a new volunteer, eg fist-bump.; Again, invite everyone to find a new partner - according to the new nominated criteria - to practice this latest handshake.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

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