Fun Trust-Building Activity & Energiser: Talking Behind Your Back
Fun Trust-Building Activity & Energiser: Talking Behind Your Back is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.
How to run it
- Distribute an index card and a pen or marker to each person.
- Instruct each person to write their name on top of their card.
- Tape or pin these cards to the back of their owner.
- Instruct everyone to mingle with as many people in the group and write a short, affirming comment about that person on their index card.
- If you choose, instruct people to write their comments anonymously.
- When ready, invite each person to remove their card and read the comments.
- Talking Behind Your Back Fun trust-building activity creating positive connections & support.
- Talking Behind Your Back is a fun trust-building activity that creates meaningful bonds through supportive communication.
- Participants receive encouraging comments from their peers as part of the sharing process.
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Prompts to use +
Instruct each person to write their name on top of their card.
Instruct everyone to mingle with as many people in the group and write a short, affirming comment about that person on their index card.
If you choose, instruct people to write their comments anonymously.
When ready, invite each person to remove their card and read the comments.
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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Fun Trust-Building Activity & Energiser: Talking Behind Your Back. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Instruct each person to write their name on top of their card.; Instruct everyone to mingle with as many people in the group and write a short, affirming comment about that person on their index card.; If you choose, instruct people to write their comments anonymously.; When ready, invite each person to remove their card and read the comments.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.
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