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Relationship Mapping

Connecting People

Connecting People is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Explain to participants that they will need to “reach out” to someone based on the descriptions they hear.
  2. Mention that it’s not a competition, but a chance to interact and have fun while observing others.
  3. The facilitator says a description like: “Find someone wearing glasses” or “Look for someone with red shoes.”
  4. Participants should move quickly and “reach out” to someone who matches the description.
  5. Once they find someone, they can briefly introduce themselves or share something about themselves.
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Prompts to use +

Explain to participants that they will need to “reach out” to someone based on the descriptions they hear.

Mention that it’s not a competition, but a chance to interact and have fun while observing others.

Participants should move quickly and “reach out” to someone who matches the description.

Once they find someone, they can briefly introduce themselves or share something about themselves.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Connecting People. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Explain to participants that they will need to “reach out” to someone based on the descriptions they hear.; Mention that it’s not a competition, but a chance to interact and have fun while observing others.; Participants should move quickly and “reach out” to someone who matches the description.; Once they find someone, they can briefly introduce themselves or share something about themselves.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

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