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Relationship Mapping

Closing Triangles

Closing Triangles is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Pairs, Small group (4-8)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. There are three foundations to closing triangles, and by connecting two individuals (B & C), the connector (A) can enable them to communicate without having to go through her/him
  2. Get individuals to explore an interest together and help them determine if some action can flow from that interest "twosie" A twosie is when people decide to do something together
  3. Have participants take 10 minutes to think carefully about their personal network
  4. Who is it that can/should get to know each other?
  5. What do I know about them that would help them build a better relationship?
  6. Then in pairs, work out a plan to help your network grow and build
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Prompts to use +

There are three foundations to closing triangles, and by connecting two individuals (B & C), the connector (A) can enable them to communicate without having to go through her/him

Get individuals to explore an interest together and help them determine if some action can flow from that interest "twosie" A twosie is when people decide to do something together

Have participants take 10 minutes to think carefully about their personal network

What do I know about them that would help them build a better relationship?

Then in pairs, work out a plan to help your network grow and build

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Closing Triangles. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: There are three foundations to closing triangles, and by connecting two individuals (B & C), the connector (A) can enable them to communicate without having to go through her/him; Get individuals to explore an interest together and help them determine if some action can flow from that interest "twosie" A twosie is when people decide to do something together; Have participants take 10 minutes to think carefully about their personal network; What do I know about them that would help them build a better relationship?. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

Origin unverified

  • Where we observed it: The strongest current observations come from Relationship Makers Handbook; aggregators are listed as additional observations, not origin proof. (1 source observed, including Relationship Makers Handbook.)
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