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Wabi Sabi

Wabi-sabi is the Japanese art of finding beauty in imperfection. The beauty in an object lies in the flaws. Explore wabi sabi as a group.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Small group (4-8)GROUP SIZE
QuietENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
Medium cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. It celebrates cracks and crevices and all the other marks that time, weather, and loving use leave behind
  2. Does anyone have any experience with it?
  3. Can anyone share a personal story about it?
  4. Discuss honoring things old and weathered
  5. Share with each other the celebrations in your group/your work/your relationships with your People
  6. Science team What would happen if you approach everything with "rose colored glasses.■ How could you use wabi sabi to employ the pygmalion effect on those in your group, or those around■ youh the greater the expectation placed upon people, the better they perform - raise your level of expectation and that person will achieve it
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Prompts to use +

It celebrates cracks and crevices and all the other marks that time, weather, and loving use leave behind

Does anyone have any experience with it?

Can anyone share a personal story about it?

Discuss honoring things old and weathered

Share with each other the celebrations in your group/your work/your relationships with your People

Science team What would happen if you approach everything with "rose colored glasses.■ How could you use wabi sabi to employ the pygmalion effect on those in your group, or those around■ youh the greater the expectation placed upon people, the better they perform - raise your level of expectation and that person will achieve it

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Wabi Sabi. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: It celebrates cracks and crevices and all the other marks that time, weather, and loving use leave behind; Does anyone have any experience with it?; Can anyone share a personal story about it?; Discuss honoring things old and weathered. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

Origin unverified

  • Where we observed it: The strongest current observations come from Relationship Makers Handbook; aggregators are listed as additional observations, not origin proof. (1 source observed, including Relationship Makers Handbook.)
  • What that means: we track where an exercise has been observed in public sources. We do not claim to know who created it, or how popular it is.
  • No efficacy claims: appearing in this library is not a claim that the exercise is proven effective. Facilitator judgment and context decide whether it works for a given room.
  • Corrections: if you have evidence of an earlier or more accurate source, read our methodology and trust boundary and tell us.

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