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Personal Disclosure ยท Relationship Mapping

Two Truths and One Lie

Two Truths and a Lie is a light personal-disclosure game where each person shares two facts and one false statement, then the group listens closely and guesses the lie.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Explain the rules of the activity and the goal of getting to know each other in a fun way.
  2. Ask each participant to think of three statements about themselves:
  3. Encourage participants to be creative and share interesting or unexpected facts.
  4. Each participant shares their three statements with the group without revealing which one is the lie.
  5. The rest of the group discusses and votes on which statement they believe is the lie.
  6. The participant reveals the correct answer and can share a brief story about the true statements.
  7. Continue until all participants have had their turn.
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Prompts to use +

Each participant prepares three statements about themselves: two true and one false.

The group asks light clarifying questions, then guesses which statement is the lie.

After the reveal, invite a short follow-up story behind one true statement.

Explain the rules of the activity and the goal of getting to know each other in a fun way.

Ask each participant to think of three statements about themselves:

Encourage participants to be creative and share interesting or unexpected facts.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Two Truths and One Lie. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Each participant prepares three statements about themselves: two true and one false.; The group asks light clarifying questions, then guesses which statement is the lie.; After the reveal, invite a short follow-up story behind one true statement.; Explain the rules of the activity and the goal of getting to know each other in a fun way.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

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