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Visual Thinking · Relationship Mapping

The Spider Web

The Spider Web is a visual thinking exercise for relationship mapping: it helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Explain to participants that they will work together to build a web that symbolizes their connections, roles, or ideas.
  2. Emphasize that the activity requires attention, active listening, and collaboration.
  3. Ask each participant to introduce themselves or share something about themselves (e.g., an interest, a role, or a personal value).
  4. Start by handing the ball of thread to one person.
  5. The first person holds onto the end of the thread and throws the ball to someone else while responding to a question or completing a prompt. Examples:
  6. “I choose because we both share an interest in…”
  7. “My experience in this topic connects with because…”
  8. “I choose \ because we both share an interest in…”
  9. “My experience in this topic connects with \ because…”
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Prompts to use +

Explain to participants that they will work together to build a web that symbolizes their connections, roles, or ideas.

Ask each participant to introduce themselves or share something about themselves (e.g., an interest, a role, or a personal value).

Start by handing the ball of thread to one person.

“I choose because we both share an interest in…”

“I choose \ because we both share an interest in…”

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Works with Claude, ChatGPT, Gemini, or your own local model: paste this prompt and your AI will co-facilitate this exercise with you.

Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: The Spider Web. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Explain to participants that they will work together to build a web that symbolizes their connections, roles, or ideas.; Ask each participant to introduce themselves or share something about themselves (e.g., an interest, a role, or a personal value).; Start by handing the ball of thread to one person.; “I choose because we both share an interest in…”. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

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  • No efficacy claims: appearing in this library is not a claim that the exercise is proven effective. Facilitator judgment and context decide whether it works for a given room.
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