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Relationship Mapping

Shake It Out

Shake It Out is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In personSETTING
Low cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. All players stand in a circle and "shake out
  2. Then repeat exactly the same cycle above with 8 shakes
  3. Continue the same pattern again with 4 shakesh except everyone is moving between limbs much faster
  4. After complete, but without losing a beat, everyone shakes their left hand.
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All players stand in a circle and "shake out

Then repeat exactly the same cycle above with 8 shakes

Continue the same pattern again with 4 shakesh except everyone is moving between limbs much faster

After complete, but without losing a beat, everyone shakes their left hand.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Shake It Out. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: All players stand in a circle and "shake out; Then repeat exactly the same cycle above with 8 shakes; Continue the same pattern again with 4 shakesh except everyone is moving between limbs much faster; After complete, but without losing a beat, everyone shakes their left hand.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

Origin unverified

  • Where we observed it: The strongest current observations come from Relationship Makers Handbook; aggregators are listed as additional observations, not origin proof. (1 source observed, including Relationship Makers Handbook.)
  • What that means: we track where an exercise has been observed in public sources. We do not claim to know who created it, or how popular it is.
  • No efficacy claims: appearing in this library is not a claim that the exercise is proven effective. Facilitator judgment and context decide whether it works for a given room.
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