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Relationship Mapping

Reciprocity Ring

Quick Description Maximize collaboration and communication with this fun and physical "sneak-a-peek" exercise where participants are forced to remember an object and communicate with a team to succeed Process Place the pre-made building block sculpture in an area that is an equal distance from all teams..

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25), Small group (4-8)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
Low cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Each person makes a request, and group members use their knowledge, resources, and connections to grant it
  2. Run two separate rounds - the first for personal requests, so that people begin to open up, and the second for professional requests
  3. ([DPSOH Potential requests to start the round off with My husband and I have tickets to the Vikings game tonight, but my babysitter cancelled last minute
  4. Reciprocity Ring Timing 15 30 minutes, 60 180 minutes Purpose/Objectives Quick Description Break down barriers to asking for help by making it fun Process In large People Science teams 10-15 people , participants gather in a circle.
  5. Cool Possibilities/Options Use in conjunction with People Science Helping Behavior to emphasize the need to help..
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Prompts to use +

Each person makes a request, and group members use their knowledge, resources, and connections to grant it

Run two separate rounds - the first for personal requests, so that people begin to open up, and the second for professional requests

([DPSOH Potential requests to start the round off with My husband and I have tickets to the Vikings game tonight, but my babysitter cancelled last minute

Reciprocity Ring Timing 15 30 minutes, 60 180 minutes Purpose/Objectives Quick Description Break down barriers to asking for help by making it fun Process In large People Science teams 10-15 people , participants gather in a circle.

Cool Possibilities/Options Use in conjunction with People Science Helping Behavior to emphasize the need to help..

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Reciprocity Ring. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Each person makes a request, and group members use their knowledge, resources, and connections to grant it; Run two separate rounds - the first for personal requests, so that people begin to open up, and the second for professional requests; ([DPSOH Potential requests to start the round off with My husband and I have tickets to the Vikings game tonight, but my babysitter cancelled last minute; Reciprocity Ring Timing 15 30 minutes, 60 180 minutes Purpose/Objectives Quick Description Break down barriers to asking for help by making it fun Process In large People Science teams 10-15 people , participants gather in a circle.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

Origin unverified

  • Where we observed it: The strongest current observations come from Relationship Makers Handbook; aggregators are listed as additional observations, not origin proof. (1 source observed, including Relationship Makers Handbook.)
  • What that means: we track where an exercise has been observed in public sources. We do not claim to know who created it, or how popular it is.
  • No efficacy claims: appearing in this library is not a claim that the exercise is proven effective. Facilitator judgment and context decide whether it works for a given room.
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