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Relationship Mapping

Quick & Easy Interactive Icebreaker Game - Stationary Handshakes

Quick & Easy Interactive Icebreaker Game - Stationary Handshakes is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25), PairsGROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Ask each person to casually shake the hands of their immediate left- and right-hand neighbours.
  2. Next, invite everyone to shake hands with as many people as possible without moving their feet.
  3. Still in a circle, invite your group to shake the hands of as many people as possible using only one pivot foot.
  4. Starting from a circle again, invite your group to shake the hands of as many people as possible by moving freely about the space.
  5. Stationary Handshakes Interactive icebreaker game with handshaking challenges.
  6. People start by greeting neighbours, then stretch to reach more hands without moving their feet, creating laughs and friendly connections.
  7. Stationary Handshakes is a wonderfully simple and fun handshake game that breaks down barriers while getting people comfortable with each other.
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Prompts to use +

Ask each person to casually shake the hands of their immediate left- and right-hand neighbours.

Next, invite everyone to shake hands with as many people as possible without moving their feet.

Still in a circle, invite your group to shake the hands of as many people as possible using only one pivot foot.

Starting from a circle again, invite your group to shake the hands of as many people as possible by moving freely about the space.

People start by greeting neighbours, then stretch to reach more hands without moving their feet, creating laughs and friendly connections.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Quick & Easy Interactive Icebreaker Game - Stationary Handshakes. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Ask each person to casually shake the hands of their immediate left- and right-hand neighbours.; Next, invite everyone to shake hands with as many people as possible without moving their feet.; Still in a circle, invite your group to shake the hands of as many people as possible using only one pivot foot.; Starting from a circle again, invite your group to shake the hands of as many people as possible by moving freely about the space.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

Origin unverified

  • Where we observed it: The strongest current observations come from Playmeo; aggregators are listed as additional observations, not origin proof. (1 source observed, including Playmeo.)
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  • No efficacy claims: appearing in this library is not a claim that the exercise is proven effective. Facilitator judgment and context decide whether it works for a given room.
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