Making Conflict Useful • WorkshopBank
Making Conflict Useful • WorkshopBank is a structured group exercise for constructive conflict: it helps participants surface tension or disagreement in a structured way.
How to run it
- Step 1: Reframe Conflict and Identify Default Pattern (20 mins)
- Goal: Shift the team's mindset about conflict from something to avoid to something to use well, and surface their current conflict pattern.
- Welcome the team and set the frame: "Conflict is not the problem. How we handle conflict is. Today we learn to make conflict useful instead of destructive or absent."
- Ask the team: "When you hear the word 'conflict,' what comes to mind?" Capture responses on a flip chart. Expect words like: uncomfortable, tense, risky, drama, fight, avoid.
- Introduce the spectrum of conflict patterns (draw on flip chart):
- Conflict Avoidance: Issues are not raised, disagreement stays hidden, decisions are weak
- Productive Conflict: Disagreement is direct, focused on ideas, and leads to better outcomes
- Destructive Conflict: Disagreement gets personal, damages relationships, creates drama
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Step 1: Reframe Conflict and Identify Default Pattern (20 mins)
Goal: Shift the team's mindset about conflict from something to avoid to something to use well, and surface their current conflict pattern.
Welcome the team and set the frame: "Conflict is not the problem. How we handle conflict is. Today we learn to make conflict useful instead of destructive or absent."
Ask the team: "When you hear the word 'conflict,' what comes to mind?" Capture responses on a flip chart. Expect words like: uncomfortable, tense, risky, drama, fight, avoid.
Introduce the spectrum of conflict patterns (draw on flip chart):
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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Making Conflict Useful • WorkshopBank. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Step 1: Reframe Conflict and Identify Default Pattern (20 mins); Goal: Shift the team's mindset about conflict from something to avoid to something to use well, and surface their current conflict pattern.; Welcome the team and set the frame: "Conflict is not the problem. How we handle conflict is. Today we learn to make conflict useful instead of destructive or absent."; Ask the team: "When you hear the word 'conflict,' what comes to mind?" Capture responses on a flip chart. Expect words like: uncomfortable, tense, risky, drama, fight, avoid.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.
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