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# Gratitude Jar Ceremony

Participants write down a specific appreciation on a slip of paper and place it into a central jar, choosing whether to speak it aloud, share a single word, or deposit it silently.

**Time:** 15 minutes. 15 minutes based on the indoor paper and jar adaptation of the campfire ceremony described by Mark Collard.
**People:** 4 to 24. Solo reflection, followed by a whole-group circle share

## Choose this exercise

**Purpose:** Acknowledge specific personal and communal contributions before concluding a shared program.
**Use it when:** Use at the end of a multi-day workshop, team retreat, or completed project cycle when participants have shared experiences to reflect upon.
**Skip it when:** Skip at the conclusion of contentious negotiations, brief tactical standups, or initial meetings where participants do not yet know one another.

## Materials and tools

- Strips of paper (at least 2 per participant)
- Pens or pencils (1 per participant)
- One clear glass jar or bowl placed in the center of the room

## Before participants arrive

1. Place a low table or stool in the center of the seating circle.
2. Set the clear collection jar on the table.
3. Distribute paper strips and pens to every seat.

## Say this to open

To close our time together, we will take a few minutes to recognize the support that helped us along the way. Take a slip of paper and write down one person, practical action, or circumstance you feel grateful for from our program. When called, you can drop your note into the center jar and read it aloud, say a single word, or deposit it completely silently.

## How to run it

### 1. Introduce closing reflection (2 minutes)

Explain the closing exercise using the opening script. Ensure everyone has paper and a pen.

### 2. Write gratitude slips (3 minutes)

Ask participants to reflect silently. Each person writes one specific contribution or support they appreciate from the session. Neutral example: 'I am grateful to Chris for tracking time and organizing the flip charts when our debate ran long.' Tell participants they may also choose to leave the paper blank if they prefer to participate quietly without writing.

### 3. Deposit and share slips (7 minutes)

Invite participants to come forward around the circle one by one. Each person places their slip into the central glass jar. They may read the slip aloud in one sentence, state a single appreciative word, or deposit the paper silently and step back. For groups larger than 12, prompt each person to limit any spoken line to ten seconds so everyone has space to deposit their slip within the time.

### 4. Review themes and close (3 minutes)

Invite up to three volunteers to state any overarching patterns or shared sentiments they observed across the room. Thank the group for their collective efforts and conclude the session.


## Debrief questions

- What common patterns or supports stood out across our notes?
- How does naming these contributions influence how we step back into our everyday work?

**Finished output:** A central jar filled with individual gratitude slips, serving as a tangible record of shared contributions.

## Remote

Run in the main video room. Give participants 3 minutes to reflect and write their line on scratch paper or in an unsent message box. Go around the room in alphabetical order: each person may unmute to read their sentence, say one word, paste their note into the public chat, or pass. The public text chat serves as the digital equivalent of the shared jar.

## Hybrid

Room participants use physical paper and the center jar. Remote participants post their appreciation into the public chat or speak when called. An on-site facilitator mirrors remote contributions by dropping an anonymous blank slip into the physical jar for each remote entry, keeping physical presence balanced without requiring transcription of private text.

## Access and participation choices

- Participants may deposit their slip silently without speaking.
- Participants may offer a single verbal word instead of reading written sentences.
- Participants may appreciate a group effort, inanimate resource, or institutional factor instead of naming a person.
- Anyone may deposit a blank slip to preserve privacy without drawing attention.

## If the session gets stuck

**Participants write vague or generic compliments like 'thanks to everyone'.**

Provide a concrete prompt during setup asking people to focus on a specific moment, behavior, or tangible tool that helped them.

**Individuals speak at length, consuming the round time before everyone can deposit their slip.**

Intervene gently by asking speakers to summarize their thought into a single closing sentence or a single name before passing the turn.


## Terms used here

- Keylog Ceremony: A traditional camp closing ritual where participants place a stick onto a fire while speaking an appreciation.

## Sources and adaptation

Observed in a Playmeo article by Mark Collard describing closing rituals including the Keylog Ceremony and paper-jar variations.

Mark Collard's Playmeo article presents the Keylog Ceremony alongside indoor adaptations using strips of paper and a central glass jar. UWT structured the timing, integrated specific access options including silent deposits and single-word contributions, established an exact hybrid proxy mechanic, and framed a standard 15-minute sequence for groups up to 24.

[Playmeo](https://www.playmeo.com/fun-meaningful-farewell-or-closing-activities)

[Playmeo](https://www.playmeo.com/fun-meaningful-farewell-or-closing-activities/)

Current run sheet: https://unitedwetransform.com/exercises/ideas-for-fun-meaningful-farewell-or-closing-activities/