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Applied Improv ยท Relationship Mapping

How to Talk - Weather, Sports, Busy

How to Talk - Weather, Sports, Busy is an applied improv exercise for relationship mapping: it helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Small group (4-8)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
Medium cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Ask the participants if they want to guarantee better, deeper and more meaningful conversations about
  2. Share that some "personal research you have been doing has yielded that about 75% of all conversation
  3. By show of hands, ask how many participants are willing to bypass these 'conversational crutches" to
  4. Have participants turn to a neighbor and practice NOT talking about the weather, sports, or personal
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Prompts to use +

Ask the participants if they want to guarantee better, deeper and more meaningful conversations about

Share that some "personal research you have been doing has yielded that about 75% of all conversation

By show of hands, ask how many participants are willing to bypass these 'conversational crutches" to

Have participants turn to a neighbor and practice NOT talking about the weather, sports, or personal

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: How to Talk - Weather, Sports, Busy. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Ask the participants if they want to guarantee better, deeper and more meaningful conversations about; Share that some "personal research you have been doing has yielded that about 75% of all conversation; By show of hands, ask how many participants are willing to bypass these 'conversational crutches" to; Have participants turn to a neighbor and practice NOT talking about the weather, sports, or personal. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

Origin unverified

  • Where we observed it: The strongest current observations come from Relationship Makers Handbook; aggregators are listed as additional observations, not origin proof. (1 source observed, including Relationship Makers Handbook.)
  • What that means: we track where an exercise has been observed in public sources. We do not claim to know who created it, or how popular it is.
  • No efficacy claims: appearing in this library is not a claim that the exercise is proven effective. Facilitator judgment and context decide whether it works for a given room.
  • Corrections: if you have evidence of an earlier or more accurate source, read our methodology and trust boundary and tell us.

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