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Relationship Mapping

Fun Icebreaker Game for Group Connections - Have You Ever?

Fun Icebreaker Game for Group Connections - Have You Ever? is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25), Small group (4-8)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In person, RemoteSETTING
High cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Form a circle, with each person standing on a spot (or sitting in a chair.)
  2. Move yourself to stand in the centre of the circle (you are without a seat).
  3. Ask a question that starts with “HAVE YOU EVER…?” for example “… BEEN TO THAILAND?”
  4. Everyone in the circle who can answer ‘Yes’ to the question may choose to leave their spot, and attempt to fill a vacant spot elsewhere in the circle.
  5. Anyone leaving their spot cannot move into the spot of their immediate left or right neighbours.
  6. The person asking the question will also attempt to fill a spot as it becomes vacant.
  7. Once every vacant spot has been filled, the person without a spot will ask the next “HAVE YOU EVER…?” question.
  8. If someone cannot think of a question, or simply does not want to be in the centre, they may invite a volunteer to swap roles with them.
  9. Have You Ever?
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Prompts to use +

Form a circle, with each person standing on a spot (or sitting in a chair.)

Move yourself to stand in the centre of the circle (you are without a seat).

Ask a question that starts with “HAVE YOU EVER…?” for example “… BEEN TO THAILAND?”

Everyone in the circle who can answer ‘Yes’ to the question may choose to leave their spot, and attempt to fill a vacant spot elsewhere in the circle.

Anyone leaving their spot cannot move into the spot of their immediate left or right neighbours.

Once every vacant spot has been filled, the person without a spot will ask the next “HAVE YOU EVER…?” question.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Fun Icebreaker Game for Group Connections - Have You Ever?. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Form a circle, with each person standing on a spot (or sitting in a chair.); Move yourself to stand in the centre of the circle (you are without a seat).; Ask a question that starts with “HAVE YOU EVER…?” for example “… BEEN TO THAILAND?”; Everyone in the circle who can answer ‘Yes’ to the question may choose to leave their spot, and attempt to fill a vacant spot elsewhere in the circle.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

Origin unverified

  • Where we observed it: The strongest current observations come from Playmeo; aggregators are listed as additional observations, not origin proof. (1 source observed, including Playmeo.)
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