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Relationship Mapping

First Day at Work

First Day at Work is a relationship mapping exercise that helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Small group (4-8)GROUP SIZE
QuietENERGY
In personSETTING
Medium cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Network Design This relationship mapping exercise strengthens Network Design, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. Ask participants to close their eyes and think about their very first job
  2. if this isn"t the 'close your eyes" kind of gathering, simply have participants write some thoughts down Think about the first day
  3. How many jobs have they had since?
  4. Have those feelings repeated themselves?
  5. What techniques do they have for managing these emotions?
  6. Turn to your neighbor or People Science group and share
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Prompts to use +

Ask participants to close their eyes and think about their very first job

if this isn"t the 'close your eyes" kind of gathering, simply have participants write some thoughts down Think about the first day

How many jobs have they had since?

Have those feelings repeated themselves?

What techniques do they have for managing these emotions?

Turn to your neighbor or People Science group and share

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: First Day at Work. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Ask participants to close their eyes and think about their very first job; if this isn"t the 'close your eyes" kind of gathering, simply have participants write some thoughts down Think about the first day; How many jobs have they had since?; Have those feelings repeated themselves?. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

Origin unverified

  • Where we observed it: The strongest current observations come from Relationship Makers Handbook; aggregators are listed as additional observations, not origin proof. (1 source observed, including Relationship Makers Handbook.)
  • What that means: we track where an exercise has been observed in public sources. We do not claim to know who created it, or how popular it is.
  • No efficacy claims: appearing in this library is not a claim that the exercise is proven effective. Facilitator judgment and context decide whether it works for a given room.
  • Corrections: if you have evidence of an earlier or more accurate source, read our methodology and trust boundary and tell us.

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