Don't Believe Everything You Think Workshop • WorkshopBank
Don't Believe Everything You Think Workshop • WorkshopBank is a personal disclosure exercise for relationship mapping: it helps participants build useful connections and understand how people, roles, or ideas relate.
How to run it
- Goal: Help participants recognise that their suffering comes from thoughts about circumstances, not the circumstances themselves.
- Welcome participants and explain that this workshop explores a simple but profound idea: most of our suffering is optional.
- Ask: "Think of something that's causing you stress or worry right now. Don't share it yet, just notice it." Give 30 seconds.
- Ask: "Is the stress happening right now in this room, or is it happening in your thoughts about something?" Pause for reflection.
- Explain the core insight: circumstances are neutral. Our thoughts about circumstances create our experience of suffering.
- Draw two scenarios on the flipchart:
- Person A stuck in traffic: "This is terrible, I'll be late, everyone will judge me" (suffering)
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Welcome participants and explain that this workshop explores a simple but profound idea: most of our suffering is optional.
Ask: "Think of something that's causing you stress or worry right now. Don't share it yet, just notice it." Give 30 seconds.
Ask: "Is the stress happening right now in this room, or is it happening in your thoughts about something?" Pause for reflection.
Explain the core insight: circumstances are neutral. Our thoughts about circumstances create our experience of suffering.
Draw two scenarios on the flipchart:
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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: Don't Believe Everything You Think Workshop • WorkshopBank. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: Welcome participants and explain that this workshop explores a simple but profound idea: most of our suffering is optional.; Ask: "Think of something that's causing you stress or worry right now. Don't share it yet, just notice it." Give 30 seconds.; Ask: "Is the stress happening right now in this room, or is it happening in your thoughts about something?" Pause for reflection.; Explain the core insight: circumstances are neutral. Our thoughts about circumstances create our experience of suffering.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.
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