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Relationship Mapping

Year of the Coin

Participants inspect a randomly drawn coin and share a brief personal memory or historical event linked to the year stamped on it. Small groups hear each story in structured turns.

15 minutesTIME
4 to 24 peopleGROUP SIZE
In person, Remote, HybridSETTING
4 materialsMATERIALS
Planning pillar: Network Design UWT groups this relationship mapping activity under Network Design in its Gathering Effectiveness planning framework.

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Purpose: Prompt low-stakes storytelling anchored to an objective prompt so participants learn incidental details about one another.

Use it when: Use as an opening check-in for groups starting a session who need a quick, personal conversation without deep vulnerability.

Skip it when: Skip when participants are unfamiliar with regional currencies, when dates on pocket change vary wildly from the group's lived eras, or when participants cannot handle small objects.

Group arrangement: Small groups of 3 to 4 participants, or a group of 5 if the count requires it (such as a total group of 5)

Timing: UWT suggested duration fits 15 minutes for small-group sharing; source suggests a quick icebreaker band (5-15 minutes).

Materials and tools

Before participants arrive

  1. Gather coins minted across a diverse range of recent decades (for example, spanning the last 40 to 50 years).
  2. Place coins in a central bowl or small pouch so they can be drawn blindly.
  3. Arrange chairs into clusters of 3 to 4 (or 5 if needed).

Say this to open

Take a coin from the bowl without looking at the date first. Find the year stamped on it. You will share a short memory from that year, or if it was before you were born or you simply cannot recall that year, name an event in history or culture from that era. You can always swap your coin or pass.

How to run it

  1. Draw coins and read dates 2 minutes

    Hand the bowl around or pass out one coin to each participant. Ask everyone to inspect their coin and note the minted year. Offer extra coins or magnifying glasses if the numbers are hard to read.

  2. Form small groups 1 minutes

    Divide the room into small groups of 3 or 4 (or one group of 5 if the headcount requires it, such as with 5 participants). Tell participants they will each have about two minutes to share their story.

  3. Share stories in small groups 9 minutes

    Groups begin sharing. The first speaker states their coin's year and shares either a personal memory from that year, an event from history if it predates their birth or memory, or a neutral reflection. Each group member takes an equal turn. If time permits, groups may pass their coins clockwise to swap and run a second quick round until the facilitator calls time.

  4. Debrief and room summary 3 minutes

    Reconvene the full group. Ask two or three volunteers to share an interesting or surprising historical fact or personal anecdote they heard from a peer.

Debrief questions

Finished output: Every participant shares one brief personal or historical event linked to a minted year, or chooses to pass.

Remote

Ask remote participants to grab any coin from their own pocket or wallet. If they do not have coins, use an online random year generator to assign each person a year spanning the last 40 to 50 years. Send participants into breakout rooms of 3 to 4 (or up to 5) for 8 minutes to share.

Hybrid

Ensure remote participants use either personal pocket change or an assigned year from an online generator posted in the chat. In-person participants use physical coins. Pair in-person clusters with a room microphone, or create pure remote breakouts and pure in-person breakouts to avoid acoustic overlap.

Access and participation choices

If the session gets stuck

A participant draws an extremely old coin from decades before they were born and cannot think of any historical event.
Allow them to look up a quick headline on their phone, consult their subgroup for ideas, or simply pick an extra coin from the bowl.
The stamped year on a coin is rubbed flat or illegible.
Swap the coin immediately with a spare legible coin from the facilitator pouch.

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# Year of the Coin

Participants inspect a randomly drawn coin and share a brief personal memory or historical event linked to the year stamped on it. Small groups hear each story in structured turns.

**Time:** 15 minutes. UWT suggested duration fits 15 minutes for small-group sharing; source suggests a quick icebreaker band (5-15 minutes).
**People:** 4 to 24. Small groups of 3 to 4 participants, or a group of 5 if the count requires it (such as a total group of 5)

## Choose this exercise

**Purpose:** Prompt low-stakes storytelling anchored to an objective prompt so participants learn incidental details about one another.
**Use it when:** Use as an opening check-in for groups starting a session who need a quick, personal conversation without deep vulnerability.
**Skip it when:** Skip when participants are unfamiliar with regional currencies, when dates on pocket change vary wildly from the group's lived eras, or when participants cannot handle small objects.

## Materials and tools

- Assorted physical coins with legible mint dates (at least one per participant, plus extras)
- Small pouch or bowl to hold coins
- Digital random year generator or digital chat for remote option
- Scratch paper and pen for the optional timeline variation

## Before participants arrive

1. Gather coins minted across a diverse range of recent decades (for example, spanning the last 40 to 50 years).
2. Place coins in a central bowl or small pouch so they can be drawn blindly.
3. Arrange chairs into clusters of 3 to 4 (or 5 if needed).

## Say this to open

Take a coin from the bowl without looking at the date first. Find the year stamped on it. You will share a short memory from that year, or if it was before you were born or you simply cannot recall that year, name an event in history or culture from that era. You can always swap your coin or pass.

## How to run it

### 1. Draw coins and read dates (2 minutes)

Hand the bowl around or pass out one coin to each participant. Ask everyone to inspect their coin and note the minted year. Offer extra coins or magnifying glasses if the numbers are hard to read.

### 2. Form small groups (1 minutes)

Divide the room into small groups of 3 or 4 (or one group of 5 if the headcount requires it, such as with 5 participants). Tell participants they will each have about two minutes to share their story.

### 3. Share stories in small groups (9 minutes)

Groups begin sharing. The first speaker states their coin's year and shares either a personal memory from that year, an event from history if it predates their birth or memory, or a neutral reflection. Each group member takes an equal turn. If time permits, groups may pass their coins clockwise to swap and run a second quick round until the facilitator calls time.

### 4. Debrief and room summary (3 minutes)

Reconvene the full group. Ask two or three volunteers to share an interesting or surprising historical fact or personal anecdote they heard from a peer.


## Debrief questions

- What was it like trying to link a random calendar year to an actual memory?
- What is one surprising piece of history or personal detail you learned from your group?
- Did hearing someone else's timeline change how you view their perspectives today?

**Finished output:** Every participant shares one brief personal or historical event linked to a minted year, or chooses to pass.

## Remote

Ask remote participants to grab any coin from their own pocket or wallet. If they do not have coins, use an online random year generator to assign each person a year spanning the last 40 to 50 years. Send participants into breakout rooms of 3 to 4 (or up to 5) for 8 minutes to share.

## Hybrid

Ensure remote participants use either personal pocket change or an assigned year from an online generator posted in the chat. In-person participants use physical coins. Pair in-person clusters with a room microphone, or create pure remote breakouts and pure in-person breakouts to avoid acoustic overlap.

## Access and participation choices

- Keep high-contrast magnifiers or large-print date slips available for anyone with visual strain.
- Participants may freely trade their coin for another if a year triggers an unpleasant memory, without needing to justify the swap.
- Anyone may choose to talk about a public event, sports match, movie, or song from that year rather than a personal memory, or may pass entirely.

## If the session gets stuck

**A participant draws an extremely old coin from decades before they were born and cannot think of any historical event.**

Allow them to look up a quick headline on their phone, consult their subgroup for ideas, or simply pick an extra coin from the bowl.

**The stamped year on a coin is rubbed flat or illegible.**

Swap the coin immediately with a spare legible coin from the facilitator pouch.


## Terms used here

- Mint date: The calendar year stamped into a coin when it was produced by a government mint.

## Sources and adaptation

Observed in Playmeo collection, where it is attributed to Mark Collard.

Retained the core mechanic from Playmeo (drawing a coin, reading the year, sharing a personal memory or historical event if born later). Structured the delivery into small subgroups of 3 to 4 (allowing 5 for edge cases) instead of a whole-room serial go-around to maintain engagement within 15 minutes for up to 24 people. Added clear pass rules, a clockwise coin-swapping mechanism for spare time, remote year-generator alternatives matching the in-person 40 to 50 year range, and group pacing.

[Playmeo](https://www.playmeo.com/activities/ice-breakers-get-to-know-you-games/year-of-the-coin)

[Playmeo](https://www.playmeo.com/activities/ice-breakers-get-to-know-you-games/year-of-the-coin/)

Current run sheet: https://unitedwetransform.com/exercises/curious-icebreaker-activity-that-sparks-stories-year-of-the-coin/

Sources and adaptation

Observed in Playmeo collection, where it is attributed to Mark Collard.

Retained the core mechanic from Playmeo (drawing a coin, reading the year, sharing a personal memory or historical event if born later). Structured the delivery into small subgroups of 3 to 4 (allowing 5 for edge cases) instead of a whole-room serial go-around to maintain engagement within 15 minutes for up to 24 people. Added clear pass rules, a clockwise coin-swapping mechanism for spare time, remote year-generator alternatives matching the in-person 40 to 50 year range, and group pacing.

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