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General Collaboration Exercise · Constructive Conflict

All Tangled Up

The players take their other hand and grab the hand of anyone in the group except the people standing next to them and the person they are already holding hands with.

5 to 15 minutesTIME
Medium group (9-25), Small group (4-8)GROUP SIZE
ActiveENERGY
In personSETTING
Low cognitive loadCOGNITIVE LOAD
Strengthens Problem Specificity This constructive conflict exercise strengthens Problem Specificity, one of the eight Gathering Effectiveness pillars.

How to run it

  1. The players take one hand and grab the hand of anyone in the group except the people standing next to them.
  2. The players take their other hand and grab the hand of anyone in the group except the people standing next to them and the person they are already holding hands with.
  3. The challenge is to get untangled without letting go of each other’s hands.
  4. Emphasize that getting untangled requires a lot of communication and cooperation.
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The players take one hand and grab the hand of anyone in the group except the people standing next to them.

The players take their other hand and grab the hand of anyone in the group except the people standing next to them and the person they are already holding hands with.

The challenge is to get untangled without letting go of each other’s hands.

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Adapt this exercise for my exact room. Exercise: All Tangled Up. Readiness: Publishable Draft. Core moves: The players take one hand and grab the hand of anyone in the group except the people standing next to them.; The players take their other hand and grab the hand of anyone in the group except the people standing next to them and the person they are already holding hands with.; The challenge is to get untangled without letting go of each other’s hands.. Return a concise facilitator script with timing, wording, safety notes, and remote/in-person adjustments.

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