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# Relationship Aerobics

Small teams rotate through a rapid circuit of structured connection drills, exchanging mini stories, mapping mutual networks, and sharing practical resources.

**Time:** 20 minutes. Relationship Makers Handbook suggests 10 to 30 minutes; UWT specifies a 20-minute structured run.
**People:** 6 to 24. Small groups of 3 to 5 participants, then paired across groups (forming one trio if the total participant count is odd).

## Choose this exercise

**Purpose:** Exchange professional contacts, brief work stories, and problem-solving leads across teams through structured, timeboxed prompts.
**Use it when:** Use during kickoffs, networking events, or cross-functional team gatherings where participants need to map who knows whom and quickly discover shared resources.
**Skip it when:** Skip when the group needs deep, unhurried reflection on a single topic, or when participants are already closely acquainted and share an established network.

## Materials and tools

- One countdown timer visible to all participants
- One index card or note paper per participant
- One pen or pencil per participant
- Shared digital document or video platform chat (for remote or hybrid formats)

## Before participants arrive

1. Arrange seating into tables of 3 to 5 people.
2. Place one index card and pen at every seat.
3. Test the room timer and chime.
4. Prepare a shared digital document or chat space if running remote or hybrid.

## Say this to open

Welcome. We are doing Relationship Aerobics, a fast circuit of short connection exercises. In your small groups, you will run through quick rounds to uncover who you know, share brief experiences, and trade resources. Let us start with our first prompt.

## How to run it

### 1. Form groups and greet (3 minutes)

Direct participants into teams of 3 to 5. Invite each person to offer a six-second greeting to each teammate, such as a handshake, fist bump, or nod with steady eye contact. Anyone may decline touch and use a spoken greeting instead. Facilitator sounds a chime after 2 minutes so all members complete greetings.

### 2. Map network connectors (4 minutes)

Each person names one person inside this room and one person outside this room whom they consider exceptionally well connected. On their individual index cards, participants write down these names. Teams spend two minutes seeing if anyone can trace a link between the inside and outside person through mutual contacts, noting any mutual links on their cards.

### 3. Share mini stories (5 minutes)

Each team member gets exactly 60 seconds to share one brief personal or professional story that illustrates a lesson or interest. Listeners write down any relevant skill or shared interest on their cards. The facilitator signals 60-second intervals so speaking time remains strictly equal across the table.

### 4. Crowdsource one challenge (3 minutes)

Each table selects one real work bottleneck from any volunteer at the table. Every other person takes 30 seconds to offer one specific contact, tool, or resource that could help. Everyone writes any useful leads or connections on their own index card.

### 5. Cross-group introduction and debrief (5 minutes)

Ask all participants to stand up and walk to a different table to pair with someone from another group, forming one trio if the headcount is odd. Pairs talk concurrently for 2 minutes: partners take 60 seconds each (or 40 seconds each in a trio) to introduce their prior group's best resource lead. The facilitator then gathers the room for a 3-minute debrief with 2 or 3 volunteers.


## Debrief questions

- Which connection or resource surfaced today that surprised you most?
- What made it easy or hard to share speaking time equally across your group?

**Finished output:** Each participant holds an index card listing at least one new contact lead, tool recommendation, or shared connection.

## Remote

Form initial breakout rooms of 3 to 4 people. In step 1, participants turn on cameras and take turns giving each teammate a 6-second direct greeting or nod. In step 2 and step 4, participants record names and resources in the shared digital document or chat. Broadcast time warnings at 60-second intervals for step 3. In step 5, shuffle participants into new two-person breakout rooms (one trio if total attendance is odd) for concurrent partner sharing, then recall everyone to the main room for debrief.

## Hybrid

Keep in-person attendees at physical tables of 3 to 5 and remote attendees in parallel virtual breakouts of 3 to 5. For the cross-group introduction step, remote participants are reshuffled into new virtual breakout pairs (or one trio if odd) while in-person participants swap tables to form new in-person pairs (or one trio). Everyone returns to the main room together for whole-room debrief reflections.

## Access and participation choices

- Participants can choose a non-contact greeting such as a wave, slight bow, or verbal hello instead of physical touch.
- Participants may pass on personal details and offer a neutral work update instead.
- Writing on note cards is optional; participants may listen and contribute purely verbally.

## If the session gets stuck

**One person talks too long during the mini story round.**

Use an audible chime every 60 seconds and remind tables that passing the speaking turn on time protects everyone's voice.

**A group struggles to name a problem in the crowdsourcing step.**

Provide a default challenge prompt, such as: Finding a reliable subject matter expert on short notice.

**An odd number of participants leaves one person without a partner in the cross-group round.**

Form exactly one trio with the remaining person, and instruct that trio to divide their concurrent 2-minute sharing into 40 seconds per speaker.


## Sources and adaptation

Observed in Relationship Makers Handbook (page 28) as a relationship-building exercise titled Aerobics. A completely different theater observation exercise shares the title Aerobics in Improv Encyclopedia.

Retained the multi-exercise relational circuit from Relationship Makers Handbook page 28 (greetings, network connectors, equal-time mini stories, crowdsourced challenge resources, and cross-group introductions). UWT structured the sequence into fixed-time steps, clarified individual note taking across rounds, gave explicit floor instructions for in-person cross-group pairing, removed mandatory physical touch, and provided clear rules for odd-numbered pairing. An unrelated line-following theater exercise under the same name from Improv Encyclopedia was set aside.

[improvencyclopedia.org](https://improvencyclopedia.org/games//Aerobics.html)

Current run sheet: https://unitedwetransform.com/exercises/aerobics/