Stars

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Purpose: Catalog individual contributions visibly so the group can identify its collective capabilities and resources.

Use it when: Use during team kickoffs, project retrospectives, or community gatherings when members need to make their distinct strengths visible to one another.

Skip it when: Skip when a group is in active conflict over workload distribution, or when roles need to be defined by strict operational mandates rather than self-reported strengths.

Group arrangement: Individual writing, paired voluntary sharing, and whole-group review.

Timing: Source suggests 30 to 45 minutes for up to 30 people; UWT specifies 25 minutes for groups up to 24 using a paired share to protect time.

Materials and tools

• 1 dark blue or black poster board
• 35 star cutouts or star-shaped sticky notes
• 24 fine-tip felt markers
• 1 roll of low-tack painter tape or glue dots
• 1 digital whiteboarding board with dark canvas and star shapes if working online

Before participants arrive

1. Tape the dark poster board securely to a central wall accessible to all participants.
2. Distribute felt markers and at least one star cutout to every seat.

Say this to open

Welcome. Today we are mapping our group resources by building a collective night sky. Each person will identify one concrete strength, skill, or perspective they contribute to our work together, write it on a star, and place it on our mural.

How to run it

1. Introduce the canvas and prompt 3 minutes

   Explain the objective: identifying the range of skills and strengths present in the room. Provide one neutral example, such as 'tracking project deadlines' or 'synthesizing complex notes.' Present the prompt: 'Write one personal strength, skill, or meaningful contribution you bring to our work.' State clearly that writing a name is optional.

2. Write individual stars 4 minutes

   Participants work silently. Each person writes one strength or skill on their paper star cutout. Facilitator remains available for anyone who wants help phrasing a contribution. Anyone who prefers not to write a personal strength may write a helpful team habit or pass.

3. Assemble the starry sky 5 minutes

   Invite participants to walk up and attach their stars to the dark poster board using painter tape or glue dots. Encourage them to scan what others have posted as they walk back to their seats. For larger groups, invite participants up by table rows to prevent crowding.

4. Paired exchange and scanning 6 minutes

   Ask participants to turn to a partner and share what they wrote, or share one interesting star they noticed on the board. This ensures everyone speaks without requiring 24 consecutive whole-room shares.

5. Whole-group debrief and close 7 minutes

   Regroup as a whole room. Lead a brief visual review of the board using the debrief questions. Take up to 4 observations from volunteers about common themes or complementary skills.

Debrief questions

• What patterns, clusters, or complementary skills do you notice across our collective sky?
• How do these different strengths balance each other for our upcoming work?
• What is one strength on the board that you might lean on someone else for in the future?

Finished output: A shared visual mural containing star cutouts that represent the group's self-identified strengths and resources.

Remote

Set up a shared digital whiteboard with a dark background. Populate the canvas with star shapes or sticky notes. In step 2, participants type their strength onto a star. In step 4, send participants into breakout rooms of 2 for 5 minutes to discuss their stars. Return to the main session for the step 5 debrief. Save a digital image or export of the final canvas to share after the session.

Hybrid

In-person participants post physical stars on the wall mural while an assigned co-facilitator mirrors them onto a digital canvas, or have all participants (in-person and remote) use the shared digital canvas on their personal devices while projecting it on the room screen. Conduct the paired exchange by pairing remote participants in virtual breakout rooms and in-person participants with adjacent seatmates.

Access and participation choices

• Participants may draw a symbol instead of writing text.
• Writing a name on the star is optional.
• Participants may pass on public sharing during the paired step and whole-group debrief without explanation.
• Offer pre-cut stars with varied adhesives (peel-and-stick notes vs. tape) to accommodate fine motor variations.

If the session gets stuck

A participant gets stuck and claims they do not have a special strength to offer.

Provide a guiding prompt such as: 'Think of a small task you do that reliably helps things run smoothly, like listening carefully or organizing materials.' Offer the option to write an operational habit rather than a grand talent.

Participants cluster identical generic terms like 'hard worker' on the board.

Acknowledge the shared value, then invite the room to give one concrete example of what that quality looks like in day-to-day practice.