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Purpose: Compare individual ratings on a clear prompt and discuss the reasons behind different perspectives.

Use it when: Midway through a workshop or after an exercise when you need a rapid, low-friction check on how people experienced the task.

Skip it when: Avoid when the team has high unresolved conflict where public scoring might provoke defensive arguments, or when an open-ended retrospective fits better.

Group arrangement: Pairs (or one triad if the group size is odd)

Timing: Playmeo sources note 1 to 2 minutes per round; UWT plans 8 minutes to include setup, two scoring rounds, and a brief room check.

Materials and tools

• Timer or watch
• One whiteboard or flip chart with marker to display prompts

Before participants arrive

1. Clear enough floor space for participants to stand or sit back-to-back in pairs.
2. Write the evaluation prompt and the 1 to 5 scale definition clearly where everyone can see it.

Say this to open

Find a partner and stand back-to-back, leaving a small space between you. I will give you a specific reflection question. Silently pick a number from 1 to 5. One means very low or strongly disagree, and five means very high or strongly agree. Do not speak yet. When I say 'Turn', spin around and hold up that number of fingers. Then talk through why you chose your number.

How to run it

1. Pair and frame prompt 2 minutes

   Direct participants to find a partner and stand back-to-back without physical contact. If there is an odd person, create one triad. Read the prompt clearly (for example: 'How clear were our project priorities this week? 1 is completely unclear, 5 is completely clear'). Give 15 seconds of silent thinking time.

2. Reveal scores and discuss 3 minutes

   Call out 'Turn!' Participants pivot to face each other with hands extended, showing 1 to 5 fingers. Give pairs 2 to 3 minutes to share the reasoning behind their ratings. Tell them to listen to their partner's reasons without debating or trying to change the score.

3. Optional second prompt 2 minutes

   Have participants switch partners or stay in place. Pose a second prompt (for example: 'How well did our communication flow?'). Count down: '3, 2, 1, Turn!' Pairs reveal fingers and explain their perspectives for 90 seconds.

4. Whole-room wrap-up 1 minutes

   Call the room back together. Ask one or two volunteer pairs to share a key theme or unexpected difference that emerged from their discussions.

Debrief questions

• What was the main difference between your score and your partner's score?
• What evidence or concrete detail caused you to pick your number?
• What is one practical adjustment our team could make based on this comparison?

Finished output: Paired verbal comparison of numerical ratings on workshop or team progress.

Remote

Put participants into pairs in breakout rooms. Instead of standing back-to-back, tell both participants to type their number (1 to 5) into the private direct-message chat to their partner but not hit send. On facilitator broadcast or partner agreement, both hit enter at the exact same time, then spend 2 minutes discussing why they selected those numbers.

Hybrid

In-room attendees pair with each other on the floor. Remote participants join one-on-one virtual breakout rooms using the typed reveal mechanic. Facilitator broadcasts time cues across both spaces simultaneously.

Access and participation choices

• Participants may sit in chairs back-to-back or face away from each other if standing or turning quickly is uncomfortable.
• Anyone uncomfortable showing fingers can write their number on scratch paper or simply say it aloud when prompted.
• Any participant can pass on explaining their score or choose to focus only on general observations.

If the session gets stuck

One partner reveals their score before turning or changes fingers to match their partner.

Remind everyone before each round that differing scores are normal and helpful, and to keep their chosen hand hidden behind their back until they turn.

Odd number of participants.

Form one group of three standing in a triangle facing outward. On the cue, all three turn inward simultaneously to show their scores.