# Photo Memory Match

Participants select printed images from a gallery, sit in pairs or trios, and describe why an image sparks a memory or connects to their perspective.

**Time:** 15 minutes. Source suggests 5 to 15 minutes. UWT standardizes to 15 minutes for calm selection, paired sharing, and brief debrief.
**People:** 4 to 24. Independent selection followed by pairs or trios

## Choose this exercise

**Purpose:** Share personal context or reflections using visual cues to anchor conversation.
**Use it when:** Use at the start of a workshop or team retreat to help people introduce themselves through concrete memories.
**Skip it when:** Skip when physical space prevents accessible browsing or when the session requires quick procedural check-ins without storytelling.

## Materials and tools

- Set of 40 to 60 printed photographs showing varied scenes, landscapes, objects, and everyday activities
- A display table or open wall space
- Instruction sign or presentation slide
- Chime or timer

## Before participants arrive

1. Spread printed photographs face up across display tables or an open wall so everyone can view them without crowding.
2. Post the prompt instructions on a slide or wall poster.

## Say this to open

Welcome. Take two minutes to browse the photos on the table. Pick two images that connect with you, catch your eye, or spark a memory. Take them back to your seat and keep them face down until we begin sharing.

## How to run it

### 1. Browse and select images (3 minutes)

Read the opening script as participants approach the display. Participants browse the gallery, select two photographs each, and return to their seats with the images face down.

### 2. Form pairs or trios (2 minutes)

Direct participants to pair up with someone they know least well in the room. If there is an odd number, form one trio. Announce that each person will pick one of their two selected photos to share.

### 3. Share photo stories (7 minutes)

Pairs show their chosen image and explain why it has meaning, what memory it sparks, or how it relates to their current mindset. In pairs, each person has 3.5 minutes; ring an audible chime at the 3.5-minute mark to direct partners to switch speaker and listener roles. For any trio, each person speaks for 2 minutes; announce switches at 2 minutes and 4 minutes, leaving the final minute for brief group wrap-up.

### 4. Brief debrief (3 minutes)

Reconvene the whole room. Ask two or three volunteers to answer one of the debrief questions about how visual prompts shaped their conversation.


## Debrief questions

- What was it like using an image rather than words to start your story?
- What did you discover about your partner that you might not have learned from a standard introduction?

**Finished output:** Completed paired conversations introducing participants through personal stories and visual associations.

## Remote

Create a digital board or slide deck containing 30 to 40 numbered photographs. Give participants two minutes to scan the board silently and note the numbers of two pictures. Send participants into breakout rooms of two or three people for seven minutes. For pairs, instruct each person to speak for 3.5 minutes and broadcast a halfway switch reminder at the 3.5-minute mark. For trios, instruct each person to speak for 2 minutes and broadcast switch reminders at 2 and 4 minutes. Bring everyone back to the main room for the final 3-minute debrief.

## Hybrid

Host the digital gallery online so remote and in-room participants view the same photo collection. In-room participants browse physical copies or the shared screen, while remote participants browse the digital board. Pair remote attendees with remote attendees in breakout rooms, and pair in-room attendees with each other. If there is an odd number in either group, form a single trio within that group (keeping remote trios in a breakout room and in-room trios physically together). At minute 12, bring both remote and in-room attendees together on the central room screen and audio bridge for the unified 3-minute debrief.

## Access and participation choices

- Participants may share a work-related perspective or neutral daily hobby rather than a private personal memory.
- Anyone who prefers not to share may act as timekeeper and active listener for their pair without penalty.
- Ensure photographs feature high contrast and provide brief spoken descriptions if a participant requests visual assistance.

## If the session gets stuck

**A crowd forms around the photo table and blocks access.**

Divide the photographs across two or three separate tables or wall spaces before the session starts.

**One partner continues talking past their allotted time.**

Ring a clear chime at the 3.5-minute mark, verbally announce the switch, and walk the room to prompt the second partner to begin.


## Sources and adaptation

Observed in Relationship Makers Handbook, pages 174-175, under the title Foster Photography Spirit.

Retained the core mechanic from Relationship Makers Handbook: choosing two photos from a curated set, keeping them face down, and sharing the meaning and story behind one photo in pairs or trios. UWT structured the timing into a 15-minute sequence, added precise switch cues for both pairs and trios, clarified hybrid debrief integration, and established access options.

Current run sheet: https://unitedwetransform.com/exercises/foster-photography-spirit/